//
you're reading...
Random

Conflicted

Your in the middle of a terrible argument and everyone turns to you to help resolve it. How do you respond? How do you react to conflict?

Act cool, tell them I don’t need any help. Explain that I’ll do it myself. Do I need the help, Yes, most likely. Will I accept the help, no! By this stage I will be worked up and not in a fit state to accept any help. Something about being a man, too stubborn, too proud. There is a deep satisfaction in figuring something out and doing it yourself.

But mostly I would be too proud to ask for help or accept help. Definitely a chink in my armour, but what can you do? Some habits die hard. I don’t think I consciously do it but I get caught up in the moment and go into auto pilot and by the time I figure it out it is too late to go back.

Advertisements

About My random thoughts

I'm on a journey of self discovery to find my why. More specifically finding my passion, that one thing that will keep you up late and get you up early in the morning. The journey has long been under way but has only just begun in earnest. I started this blog in conjunction the the Live Your Legend blog challenge as a way of finding my why. If you would like to follow my journey please do.

Discussion

No comments yet.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: